ETHEREAL

The Facebook algorithm tells me I have

memories to share with friends – and when I look

I see that one of them died four years ago.

She was always a meticulous person

but seems to have neglected to leave details

of what to do with her Facebook account.

Now LinkedIn is encouraging me

to congratulate a colleague – deceased

these nine years – on his work anniversary.

Social media is filling with dead souls

that pass across our screens like shooting stars.

 

Maybe these are deliberate memento

mori; if accidental, permitted

by heirs celebrating the departed’s

sense of the absurd – or a casualness

about our commonwealth, like space debris:

the flecks of paint off bits of satellites,

an astronaut’s toothbrush, a rocket

lost, junked in the heavens.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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3 Comments
  • Ian Craine
    March 27, 2026

    I like this poem. My mobile phone address book is full of the departed. I can’t bear to delete them; each removal would seem somehow like the betrayal of a friendship. A bit fanciful perhaps but I think we writers can allow ourselves a little of that.

    I rummage through the principal bookcase, a huge wooden concertina of a thing, easy to pack yet surprisingly capacious. An indexer’s bookcase wherein I find Gogol between Frazer and Kenneth Grahame. ‘Dead Souls’ is thinner than I remember (years since I read it) but next to ‘The Golden Bough’ most works look unfed.

    Those three extremely fanciful works are I suspect merely a microcosm of the library they are part of. Full also of old friends.

  • Mary Clark
    March 29, 2026

    Facebook allows you to save a relative’s page to a ‘Legacy’ account. Then it’s almost impossible to delete, I’ve found. I suppose FB counts all those souls in its billions of ‘users’ though it’s clear, or getting more clear, who is being used.