COURAGE

In the stretch from here to where the river bends

around the meadows, there have been drownings –

crowded pleasure boats upturned, youths,

desperate with raucous bravado,

jumping from the suspension foot bridge.

The river, which is a whorl and tension

of conflicting, muddied undertows,

seems linear today, almost emollient.


A children’s cancer charity has fastened

awareness-raising memento mori

to the wrought iron railings of the bridge.

The cards and photographs – obscuring

the occasional lovers’ padlock – are tied

together, and to the rails, carefully,

almost gaily, with golden ribbon. 

The charity promotes research. The bridge’s

wooden walkway registers each human step,

shifts with each tread, beating like a slow heart. 

One card begins, ‘If love could have saved you…’ 

We dare not imagine such loss, such

unendurable humility, such

self-effacing courage.

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3 Comments
  • John Huddart
    February 25, 2022

    It is not often that we are privileged to share river walks with dear friends, but thanks for sharing these with us. A visual treat, with old father Dee stripped of her name, elemental and historic! And gender free!

  • David Alexander
    April 22, 2026

    I am reminded of the tragic drowning of Jonathan Price in the Dee over sixty years ago. A golden boy, whom everyone loved: home on vacation from his first term at Magdalen College, Oxford, he took out a sculling boat which overturned in the winter swell.

    I have thought of him from time to time over the past years, and wondered what might have been; and how painful his death must have been for his parents and his brother, Nicholas.